When Is It Time to Stop Driving? Walking Through One of Caregiving’s Hardest Decisions with Judy M. Romano

Breathe with Intention: Focus on your breath. Inhale deeply, hold for a moment, and exhale slowly. Conscious breathing helps neutralize overwhelming emotions and brings a sense of calm.
Be Your Own Comfort: Imagine what you would tell a dear friend who was feeling the same way. Now, say those kind, reassuring words to yourself. Whether it’s a phrase like, “It’s okay to let go” or “I’m safe now” , affirmations can help soothe your mind.
Anchor Yourself: Use your senses to ground yourself in the present moment. Notice what you see, hear, or feel around you. This practice helps disrupt the rumination cycle and reorients you to the here and now.

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June 19th 2026

When is it time to stop driving?

For many older adults, driving symbolizes independence and freedom. For caregivers, concerns about driving safety can bring uncertainty, worry, and difficult conversations.

In this episode, occupational therapist and driver evaluation specialist Judy Romano shares practical guidance for recognizing warning signs, approaching conversations with compassion, and helping loved ones maintain dignity and quality of life while prioritizing safety.

A thoughtful and encouraging resource for anyone caring for aging parents or supporting a loved one through changing abilities.

A Time to Care: The Caregivers Podcast

I’m Isabel Melgarejo, and I was raised never to talk about the uncomfortable things in life and to put myself after everyone else’s needs (just like any other woman I know). In college, after Dad’s passing, I had to change all my beliefs. I had to talk about death, about my mom’s future, and I had to ask for a LOT of favors.

After connecting with many caregivers when I moved to Texas and remembering one of the toughest seasons in my life, I created a program to help caregivers navigate these very uncomfortable conversations and help them through their particular journeys with their loved ones. In this podcast, I want to share advice on how to prioritize your mental health, how to have those difficult conversations, and how to talk you out of feeling guilty and overwhelmed.