Episode 4 - Coping with Loss: Navigating Grief and Home Repairs artwork
Big Grief Podcast

Episode 4 - Coping with Loss: Navigating Grief and Home Repairs

  • S1E4
  • 20:14
  • February 26th 2025

Coping with Loss: Navigating Grief and Home Repairs


In this emotional episode, Alison reflects on the loss of her parents and the ongoing challenges of maintaining their house. She discusses the struggle for parental approval and the physical and emotional toll of dealing with a home in disrepair. Through memories of sparse affection and unexpected responsibilities, Alison illustrates the complexities of grief and the bittersweet task of fulfilling her mother's last wish. Dave joins the conversation, adding insights on processing grief and the importance of time and perspective. Tune in for a touching discussion that highlights the intersections of life, death, and the everyday struggles in between.


00:00 Reflecting on Parental Approval and Reactions

01:01 Mom's Last Words and the House List

01:58 Parents' Affection and Approval

03:57 Battling Time and Completing Tasks

04:40 Frustrations with Home Repairs

05:49 Pandemic Door Replacement Saga

08:25 Roof Replacement and Water Damage

10:41 Complicated Grief and Safe Spaces

11:56 Dealing with Dad's Blindness to Problems

14:12 Inheriting and Fixing the House

16:59 Seeking a Breather from Life's Challenges

18:23 Processing Grief and Gaining Perspective

19:04 Closing Thoughts and Farewell

19:08 The Podcast Journey

Big Grief Podcast

A podcast on how we deal with grief, grieving, and all of life's Big Griefs. Hosted by writer and grief coach Alison P Cook.