Episode 6 - A Life Divided: Before and After Loss artwork
Big Grief Podcast

Episode 6 - A Life Divided: Before and After Loss

  • S1E6
  • 29:52
  • March 12th 2025

Episode 6 - A Life Divided: Before and After Loss

In Part 2 of Alison’s conversation with Heather Golczynski, they discuss the profound and multifaceted nature of grief, emphasizing that it's not just the loss of a loved one but also the loss of normalcy. They recount personal experiences of losing loved ones, describing the enduring impact of these losses on day-to-day life and emotional well-being. The conversation explores themes such as the misconceptions surrounding grief, the secondary losses that accompany the death of a loved one, and the physical and emotional responses triggered by anniversaries and memories. Offering insights into the importance of resilience, support networks, and self-care, this episode provides a candid and poignant exploration of what it means to live with and carry grief.


00:00 Understanding the Depth of Loss

01:06 Life Divided by Loss

01:49 Anger and Isolation in Grief

04:07 Physical and Emotional Trauma

05:51 The Strange Concept of Time in Grief

07:43 Strength and Silence

14:59 Isolation During Covid

15:54 Navigating Grief During COVID-19

17:01 Coping with Isolation and Loss

17:46 Reflecting on Choices and Regrets

18:35 Personal Grieving Styles

19:38 Memories and Sentimental Objects

21:47 Cherished Moments with Marc

25:57 Dealing with Inherited Items

27:01 Facing Mortality and Future Planning

29:09 Living with Constant Fear of Loss

Big Grief Podcast

A podcast on how we deal with grief, grieving, and all of life's Big Griefs. Hosted by writer and grief coach Alison P Cook.