Elderly Care Decisions: Navigating Family Dynamics, Rights, and Respect artwork
Gail Miller Age Care Explain Podcast City Radio

Elderly Care Decisions: Navigating Family Dynamics, Rights, and Respect

  • S3E4
  • 29:12
  • June 22nd 2024

What if your family’s reluctance to move an elderly loved one into residential care is based on misconceptions and a lack of firsthand caregiving experience?

Join us as we unravel the complex, emotional decisions families face regarding aged care.

Our conversation with Gail Ruth Miller sheds light on a poignant case where differing family opinions, particularly from those less involved in daily caregiving, come into play.

Gail and I emphasise the paramount importance of safety and well-being for the elderly, sometimes best achieved through residential care. We also discuss how the comprehensive care provided in hospitals can shift perceptions, leading to a greater acceptance of residential aged-care facilities.

In another important discussion, we confront the sensitive issues of elder abuse and aged rights.

We explore the often-overlooked reality that inheritance is a gift, not an entitlement, urging older family members to prioritise their happiness and well-being. Through the touching story of a mother’s final days, we stress the critical need for healthcare professionals to truly understand their patients’ wishes for treatment and care.

Open, honest conversations about living arrangements and financial autonomy are vital, and we highlight ARIS (Aged Rights Advocacy Service) as an essential resource for those feeling pressured by family members.

Join us for an episode that provides valuable insights and guidance for families navigating these challenging decisions.

Chapter Summaries

(00:19) Elderly Care Family Dynamics and Resistance

Family dynamics, safety, and acceptance of aged care facilities are discussed in relation to elderly loved ones.

(14:55) Elder Abuse and Aged Rights

Inheritance, elder care, and respecting aging loved ones' wishes are important topics, along with open communication and resources like ARIS.

Host and Producer: Ron Fielder

Web: podcastcity.com.au

Email: [email protected]

Mobile: ‭0491 633 320‬

Co-Host: Gail Ruth Miller

Web: gailruthmiller.com.au/aged-care-explained

Email: [email protected]

Mobile: +61 (0)408 013 371

Gail Miller Age Care Explain Podcast City Radio

🎙️ Age Care Explained

Hosted by Ron Fiedler | Fortnightly Expert: Gail Ruth Miller

Welcome to Age Care Explained — the radio show and podcast dedicated to helping you confidently navigate the aged care journey in Australia.

Join host Ron Fiedler from Podcast City and our resident expert, Gail Ruth Miller, founder of Age Care Explained, as we unpack the complexities of the aged care system. Whether you're planning ahead, supporting ageing parents, or working through complex family situations, we’re here to make aged care less overwhelming — and a whole lot clearer.

Gail brings deep knowledge and compassion to every episode. Through her consultancy, she helps busy Australians and families around the world understand their options and build practical, personalised aged care plans for loved ones living in Australia.

👉 If you're looking for tailored advice or step-by-step guidance, book a consultation with Gail at gailruthmiller.com.au

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Tune in for real conversations, expert tips, and practical support — all in a warm, caring space.