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If Only

If Only I Knew Then That Sharing Our Stories Was Our Superpower

  • E64
  • 33:01
  • September 30th 2025

Challenges, Intuition, and the Stories We Hide

What if the real secret to magnetic leadership isn’t about being fearless—or even having all the answers—but about sharing the stories you once tried to hide? In this conversation, we dive into the unexpected: from altitude sickness and coaching wins to raw insights on intuition, self-awareness, and why authenticity is the one thing people remember long after the applause fades. There’s also a subtle shift most leaders overlook—one that changes everything about how we connect.

My special guest is Rachel DeAlto, keynote speaker, author, and recognized expert in communication, leadership, and emotional intelligence. With a law degree, a master’s in psychology, and features on major media outlets, Rachel blends research, personal insight, and practical strategies to help leaders and teams foster authentic relationships. Her books—Relatable and The Relatable Leader—offer roadmaps for creating trust, vulnerability, and stronger connections at work and beyond.

In this episode, you’ll discover how to:

  • Use storytelling to inspire and build trust.
  • Unlock intuition to break through fear and lead with confidence.
  • Practice simple self-awareness tools that deepen real connection.
  • Embrace authenticity as the key to meaningful, lasting relationships.

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If Only

During each episode Brenda will explore the “If Only’s” stopping women from having a life they love.  

What is your If Only? Perhaps it is- If Only my boss respected me more or maybe it is If Only my spouse did more around the house and with the kids, or maybe it is If Only my kids listened to me better…….then I would be happier and more successful… 

Whatever it is for you, you will hear from Brenda and her guests who will share their personal successes in breaking through their If Only’s to create a life they love!