Personal Experiences with AuDHD and making friends (Old Video Before Autistim Siagnosis)
- S1E6
- 02:59
- April 10th 2025
- The speaker, Ryan, shares his struggles with making friends due to dyslexia and ADHD, often feeling like his friendships are short-lived.
- Ryan describes his personality as creative and hyper, which can be overwhelming for others, impacting his social interactions.
- Masking has been a coping mechanism for Ryan, as he often feels misunderstood and faces stigma related to mental health in his community.
**Community and Belonging**
- Ryan identifies as part of a neurodivergent community that values shared experiences and encourages open discussion.
- He invites viewers to engage in the comment section, emphasizing the importance of sharing personal experiences to foster connection.
- The video promotes a sense of solidarity among those with similar challenges, highlighting the benefits of community support.
**Coping with External Challenges**
- Ryan discusses the additional layers of complexity he faces as a person of color, including racism and colorism, which further complicate his social interactions.
- He addresses societal assumptions about intelligence based on race, which contribute to his struggles with forming lasting friendships.
- The speaker emphasizes the importance of navigating stereotypes and adapting his behavior (code-switching) to avoid discrimination and maximize opportunities.
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