The Truth That Turns You on: How Erotic Honesty Can Transform Your Dating Life
- E287
- 35:10
- November 24th 2025
What if Being Honest About Your Desires Made Dating Spicier Instead of Scarier?
In this episode of The Love Machine, host James Preece sits down with the wonderfully candid Inna Goncharenko - a sexual empowerment coach and sexologist - for a refreshingly real conversation about “erotic honesty.”
Together, they dive into why so many of us stay silent about what we want in bed (even though nearly 60% of singles wish they didn’t!), how to express your fantasies with confidence, and the surprising ways erotic honesty can deepen intimacy.
You’ll hear hilarious and relatable stories - like fantasising about steaks and burgers mid-romp and confessions about drawing tattoos with felt-tip pens - along with expert tips for playful, judgement-free communication. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from your own sensuality or terrified of revealing your “real” self to someone new, this episode promises to help you reclaim your voice and your pleasure.
Fancy a dose of inspiration, laughter, and some cheeky practical exercises? Tune in now - you might just discover the joy (and freedom!) of being 100% yourself in love and sex. Erotic honesty rocks1
About Inna
Ava's Switch (Amazon Kindle and paperback) – https://amzn.to/4naa9Im
Website -
https://www.secretsauceangel.com/
Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/secretsauceangel
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Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives.
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