Why Are You Single? P.s It’s Not Your Fault artwork
Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

Why Are You Single? P.s It’s Not Your Fault

  • E281
  • 50:48
  • October 13th 2025

Ready To Turn The Tables On The Age-old Question, "Why Are You Still Single?"

In this eye-opening episode of The Love Machine, host James Preece teams up with the brilliant connection coach, Minnie Lane, for a candid deep-dive into the realities of modern dating.

This isn’t your typical pep talk—prepare for myth-busting truths, a hilarious look at serial killer love stories (yes, really!), and a bold exploration of emotional growth for both men and women.

From the sneaky role of dating apps and why they might be sabotaging your search, to the new rules for emotional balance in relationships, Minnie and James tackle the issues that actually hold people back from finding true connection.

Plus, you’ll hear Minnie’s take on the dangers (and strange perks) of having an AI boyfriend, the joys and pitfalls of relentless self-development, and the real secret behind what’s actually in your control.

If you’re tired of feeling "judged" for being single—or just want a good laugh with honest, actionable advice—this episode will uplift, surprise, and inspire you. Hit play now and get ready to reset your mindset for real love!

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James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

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Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives.

Each week, James explores fun, honest and practical ways to bring more love into your life, whether that means finding the right person, feeling more confident, improving your relationships, or simply enjoying life a little more.

If you are single, dating, using dating apps, recovering from heartbreak, confused by mixed signals, dealing with red flags, trying to understand attachment styles, or wondering why modern dating feels so complicated, this podcast is here to help.

With over 300 episodes, Love Machine is packed with dating advice, relationship advice, expert interviews, real stories, mindset shifts and simple tips you can actually use. You’ll hear from dating experts, relationship experts, matchmakers, coaches, authors, therapists and brilliant guests who all have something useful, funny or inspiring to share.

From online dating, first dates, flirting and attraction to confidence, self-love, compatibility, breakups, communication, personal growth and living your best life, James brings warmth, humour and expert insight to help you date smarter, connect better and feel more hopeful about love.

Tune in now if you are ready to find love, love yourself and learn to love your life.

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