Why You Keep Attracting The Wrong Men—and How To Change It Now artwork
Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

Why You Keep Attracting The Wrong Men—and How To Change It Now

  • E295
  • 40:49
  • January 19th 2026

Why Is Chemistry Always So Hot With The Wrong Person?

Get ready for an irresistible deep dive into the secret science of attraction with this episode of The Love Machine featuring relationship expert Leah Mitchell.

If you’ve ever felt emotionally exhausted by dating or wondered why finding a compatible partner feels so tough, you’re not alone.

Our guest spills the truth about why high-achieving women struggle with connection and how your brain chemistry might be setting you up to attract the wrong people.

Discover the buzz behind the keyword “pheromones” as Leah unpacks her unique PheroGlow Method - no dodgy sprays, just real neuroscience and subconscious rewiring for modern dating.

You’ll hear how a trip to the hairdresser could be more powerful than you think, why your logical brain is blocking romantic magic, and the fast four-second mindset shift anyone can use to boost their pheromones and finally draw in secure, healthy love.

Plus, don’t miss the fun story of how Leah met her husband on Tinder, and her refreshing take on soulmates - it’s not what you expect!

Tune in for the practical tips, fascinating facts, and a lot of playfulness that will transform the way you date.

About Leah

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James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

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Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives.

Each week, James explores fun, honest and practical ways to bring more love into your life, whether that means finding the right person, feeling more confident, improving your relationships, or simply enjoying life a little more.

If you are single, dating, using dating apps, recovering from heartbreak, confused by mixed signals, dealing with red flags, trying to understand attachment styles, or wondering why modern dating feels so complicated, this podcast is here to help.

With over 300 episodes, Love Machine is packed with dating advice, relationship advice, expert interviews, real stories, mindset shifts and simple tips you can actually use. You’ll hear from dating experts, relationship experts, matchmakers, coaches, authors, therapists and brilliant guests who all have something useful, funny or inspiring to share.

From online dating, first dates, flirting and attraction to confidence, self-love, compatibility, breakups, communication, personal growth and living your best life, James brings warmth, humour and expert insight to help you date smarter, connect better and feel more hopeful about love.

Tune in now if you are ready to find love, love yourself and learn to love your life.

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