Your Nervous System and Mindset is Choosing Your Partners for You artwork
Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

Your Nervous System and Mindset is Choosing Your Partners for You

  • E319
  • 34:43
  • July 6th 2026

Are You Settling In Love Without Even Realising?

In this lively episode of The Love Machine, James Preece teams up with Nicole Simpson from Rooted In Love Matchmaking for a game-changing chat all about dating mindset.

Discover why your dating mindset could be the most important thing standing between you and a brilliant relationship, and how to tell if your thoughts are helping or sabotaging your search for love.

Hear the real reason so many singles are stuck, why dating mindset is about much more than apps, and what happens when you finally stop settling for less.

Nicole shares eye-opening stories about her own journey, and together with James, reveals powerful tips to help you shift your dating mindset, break old patterns, and become truly open to a new relationship.

Ready for more confidence, direction, and fun every time you go dating? You’ll want to listen in.

About Nicole

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James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 20 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

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Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives.

Each week, James explores fun, honest and practical ways to bring more love into your life, whether that means finding the right person, feeling more confident, improving your relationships, or simply enjoying life a little more.

If you are single, dating, using dating apps, recovering from heartbreak, confused by mixed signals, dealing with red flags, trying to understand attachment styles, or wondering why modern dating feels so complicated, this podcast is here to help.

With over 300 episodes, Love Machine is packed with dating advice, relationship advice, expert interviews, real stories, mindset shifts and simple tips you can actually use. You’ll hear from dating experts, relationship experts, matchmakers, coaches, authors, therapists and brilliant guests who all have something useful, funny or inspiring to share.

From online dating, first dates, flirting and attraction to confidence, self-love, compatibility, breakups, communication, personal growth and living your best life, James brings warmth, humour and expert insight to help you date smarter, connect better and feel more hopeful about love.

Tune in now if you are ready to find love, love yourself and learn to love your life.

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