Your Relationship Pattern Is Choosing for You - Break It Before Dating Again artwork
Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

Your Relationship Pattern Is Choosing for You - Break It Before Dating Again

  • E299
  • 35:40
  • February 16th 2026

Why Do We Keep Attracting The Wrong People After Every Breakup?

If you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of heartbreak - wondering why the same relationship patterns keep popping up no matter how hard you try to break free - this is the episode for you!

In this eye-opening chat, host James Preece sits down with former therapist turned coach Nadia Ani to decode your personal relationship pattern and reveal how it secretly guides your romantic choices.

From wild stories of self-discovery to the science behind repeating toxic relationships, Nadia Ani shares surprising insights on using breakup pain as your roadmap to growth.

Learn how your relationship pattern might be sabotaging the way you show up on dates, why you should never rush into a new romance, and how to spot warning signs before history repeats.

Whether you’re ready to stop people-pleasing, start dating with confidence, or just want a clearer understanding of your own relationship pattern this episode arms you with practical tools and honest advice. Tune in and transform the way you look at love, breakups, and what you truly need in a partner.

Curious to know the secret ingredient for lasting love? Press play and find out how your relationship pattern could be the key.

About Nadia

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About James

James Preece is the UK's top Dating Coach with over 21 years experience helping singles all over the world. He is the host of the Love Machine Podcast.

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Love Machine : Dating, Relationships and Living Your Best Life

Love Machine is the dating, relationship and confidence podcast hosted by James Preece, the UK’s leading Dating Coach and Relationship Expert with over 21 years of experience helping singles and couples create better love lives.

Each week, James explores fun, honest and practical ways to bring more love into your life, whether that means finding the right person, feeling more confident, improving your relationships, or simply enjoying life a little more.

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From online dating, first dates, flirting and attraction to confidence, self-love, compatibility, breakups, communication, personal growth and living your best life, James brings warmth, humour and expert insight to help you date smarter, connect better and feel more hopeful about love.

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