MCP118 - Why Your Negative Self-Talk Is Killing Your Business (And How to Fix It) artwork
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MCP118 - Why Your Negative Self-Talk Is Killing Your Business (And How to Fix It)

  • E119
  • 18:26
  • February 18th 2026

Why Your Negative Self-Talk Is Killing Your Business (And How to Fix It)

You're probably sabotaging your success without realizing it.

Every time you think "I'm so far behind" or "I should have started earlier," you're reinforcing the exact patterns keeping you stuck. Your habitual thoughts are not passive observations. They're actively shaping your reality, your energy, and the opportunities you can see.

This episode breaks down how to catch those destructive thought patterns and rewire them before they wreck everything you're building.

In This Episode

  • How to identify the habitual thoughts that are sabotaging your success
  • Why public confidence without private belief never works long-term
  • The daily reset practice that rewires negative thought patterns in minutes
  • How to surround yourself with people who lift you up instead of drain you

This Episode Is For You If You

  • Catches yourself thinking "I'm not smart enough" or "I'm behind everyone else"
  • Puts on a confident face publicly but struggles with self-doubt privately
  • Wants to break the cycle of negative self-talk that's holding you back
  • Needs a practical system to change your mindset without endless therapy

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#MeetCoolPeople is where founders, creators, and entrepreneurs get real about the mindset shifts that separate people who talk about success from people who build it. Hosted by Ely Delaney, each episode cuts through the noise to deliver practical insights you can apply immediately. If you're tired of surface-level advice and want to hear from people doing the actual work, this is your show.

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