How to find love with Paul Brunson, the world's no. 1 matchmaker
- S2E11
- 1:08:15
- May 23rd 2025
Paul Brunson is one of the world's most influential matchmakers, according to the Matchmaking Institute. He is also the co-host of Married At First UK and Celebs Go Dating UK, and author of 'It’s Complicated (But It Doesn’t Have to Be): A Modern Guide to Finding and Keeping Love.
In this episode, Paul explains where so many of us are going wrong in our search for love, and what we can do about it. From changing how we date and who we typically go for, to learning how to argue well, communicate effectively and set proper boundaries, Paul shares his insights on how we can all do love a bit better.
Whether you're in a relationship, looking for a partner or happily single, Paul will give you a new perspective with which to view love and your relationship to it.
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Sex Talks With Emma-Louise Boynton
Sex is about so much more than just fucking. It's about our relationship to ourselves and to our bodies. It’s about how we experience gender and the power dynamics that come with it. It’s about our capacity for vulnerability and how willing we are to let others in.
Our relationship to sex tells us so much about who we are and how we show up in the world. So why don't we talk about it more openly?
In this podcast, host and founder of Sex Talks, Emma-Louise Boynton, sits down with a new guest each week to do just that. Opening up discussion on typically taboo topics, Emma-Louise explores issues around sex and relationships, gender and the role technology is playing in changing the way we date, love and fuck.
From writers, authors and therapists, to actors, musicians and founders, the podcast brings in voices from across the board to talk about sex.
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