The Power of Saying "No" (and Other Party Tricks) artwork
That's Fun

The Power of Saying "No" (and Other Party Tricks)

  • S1E36
  • 31:29
  • October 13th 2025

This week, Nikki and Damaris get real about the art of saying no—why it feels so hard, why women tend to over-explain, and how to set boundaries without torching relationships. They share simple scripts that skip the five-paragraph excuse, ways to protect your energy before you’re burnt out, and how to handle kid-party invites, charity asks, and work favors with grace (and minimal group-text chaos).

They also tackle holiday expectations—the heartbreak of trying to make everyone happy—and offer a reset: name what you actually want, ask others what they want, and plan from there. Plus, the tiny rituals that keep your calendar (and sanity) intact: guarding a night at home, choosing the couch over the play, and letting “can’t make it” be a complete sentence.

And because it’s That’s Fun, the serious talk comes with delightfully weird detours: Would you jump into a pool of jello or marshmallows? Confetti entrance or personal theme song? Swap voices or wardrobes with your BFF for a week? Chat with lions or pigeons? It’s permission, perspective, and plenty of giggles—proof that sometimes the most fun you can have is choosing what not to do.

That's Fun

Life is a wild ride, full of highs, lows, and everything in between. But who says you can’t have fun while facing it all head-on? Welcome to "That’s Fun" the podcast where best friends Nikki Dinki and Damaris Phillips bring you the perfect blend of laughter, insight, and real talk.

Join Nikki and Damaris as they embark on a lively journey to discover the secret to keeping life light and hilarious, even when it’s anything but. With infectious enthusiasm and a touch of loving sarcasm, they dive into topics that will get your brain buzzing and your spirit soaring. From backyard adventures to globe-trotting escapades, culinary creations, and quirky hobbies, they explore it all with genuine passion and a whole lot of heart.

But it’s not all sunshine and rainbows. Nikki and Damaris aren’t afraid to tackle the tough stuff, too. They get real about life’s challenges, sharing personal stories of setbacks, triumphs, and resilience. Whether you’re grappling with the realities of middle age, parenting, or just trying to keep your inner child alive, they’ve got your back.

Through laughter, heartfelt advice, and a shared sense of adventure, Nikki and Damaris create a community of listeners who are ready to embrace life’s ups and downs. So, if you’re looking for a podcast that makes you laugh out loud while reminding you to live fully, “That’s Fun + Real” is your new go-to.

Tune in, because life is too short not to have fun—and Nikki and Damaris are here to show you how.