How to Be the Best Caregiver You Can Be Without Being Perfect artwork
The Heart of Hospice Podcast

How to Be the Best Caregiver You Can Be Without Being Perfect

  • S9E53
  • 56:46
  • June 27th 2025

Drs. Barry Jacobs and Julia Mayer join the podcast for a great conversation about bringing your best to caregiving, reminding us that caregivers don’t have to be perfect.  As authors and clinical psychologists, Barry and Julia support family caregivers, guiding them through the messiness of caring for a loved one.  As a married couple, they’ve had lived experience with caring for their parents and in-laws with Alzheimer’s and dementia.  Dealing with caregiving issues in their personal lives taught them invaluable lessons, which they now share with clients and readers of their books.  

Barry and Julia’s newest book is the “AARP Caregiver Answer Book” -   Purchase your copy at caregiveranswerbook.com

Find the AARP Caregiver Answer Book on the AARP website

Connect with Dr. Barry Jacobs and Dr. Julia Mayer on their website:  loveandmeaning.com

Read Barry’s latest blog post “My Care Receiver’s Doctors Don’t Respect My Boundaries” here

Find Dr. Barry Jacobs on social media:   Facebook   Twitter (X)   LinkedIn

Find Dr. Julia Mayer on social media:  Instagram   Facebook   Twitter (X)   LinkedIn   Bluesky 

You can find the Approaching Death Support Kit by End of Life Educator Barbara Karnes at bkbooks.com.

Find all of Barbara Karnes’ products and resources at bkbooks.com.

Read Barbara’s blog at bkbooks.com.

Connect with Barbara Karnes on Facebook   IG   LinkedIn   Twitter (X)    YouTube

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The Heart of Hospice Podcast

The Heart of Hospice podcast is dedicated to helping personal and professional caregivers who are caring for someone with serious illness. We're here to provide information and education so people can make informed choices about end of life care.