We finally get to talk about the marriage part of our journey. In this episode, we discuss our first year of marriage, what intimacy looked like and how Beecher handled having access to April's clothes. We also share how April's brother came out to us and how it shifted our beliefs.
This was when we realized our marriage didn't fix the gender dysphoria as we had hoped.
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The Non-Binary Marriage
How does the same married couple go from being conservative evangelical darlings to a queer couple that the church doesn't know how to handle?
When we got married, we both identified as cisgender, heterosexuals and were church leaders. Now one of us is non-binary (Beecher), the other is not straight (April) and we're still married, still monogamous and still christian.
This is the story of how we went from fundamentalism to freedom and the hard road in between.
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April is a content creator who uses humor to shine light on the harmful, toxic and sometimes just weird traits of evangelicalism. She now identifies as a "recovering conservative" and is navigating through her own faith deconstruction journey through a comedic lens on TikTok, Instagram, Twitter & Facebook.
She is married to Beecher and they have two daughters.
Beecher is a non-binary filmmaker residing in Tennessee with their wife and two daughters. Having only recently come out, they are in the process of deconstructing oppressive ideologies in order to promote authenticity and a larger spiritual connection in themselves. It's a journey, but they still try have fun on the way.
They are married to April and have two daughters.