Senior Living Made S.I.M.P.L.E. Expert Tips for Navigating Dementia, Memory Care & Caregiver Guilt with Shari Ross

In this episode, host Marianne Sciucco and acquisitions editor Sheila Luna sit down with Shari Ross, a senior healthcare professional and author of “Senior Living Made S.I.M.P.L.E.: A Real World Guide for Navigating Senior Care for Your Loved One.” Shari’s expertise spans her professional experience in senior living communities and her personal connection to dementia through family. This conversation explores the emotional, practical, and logistical challenges families face when transitioning loved ones to senior living, with a focus on memory care, language barriers, and advocacy.

In this episode:

• Shari discusses her background as a senior healthcare specialist, working in senior living communities, and her personal caregiving experience with her grandmother.
• She provides an overview of her new guide, “Senior Living Made S.I.M.P.L.E.,” and how it can help make senior living transitions easier for all.
• The book’s conversational, relatable, and honest approach to guiding families through the overwhelming senior care landscape is discussed
• Shari’s “S.I.M.P.L.E.” framework is explained: Support, Information, Matching, Preparation, Letting Go, Engagement.
• In addition, Shari reframes the “new” memory Care Communities
• The importance of language—using terms like “community” and “neighborhood” to foster warmth and reduce stigma.
• Shari provides pointers on transitioning to Community Living
• Why adult children and spouses often find themselves overwhelmed and unsure where to start, and how to approach those milestones.
• The need to tour and “feel the vibe,” prioritize care and community over aesthetics.
• The power of social engagement, good nutrition, and routine in enhancing quality of life.

Aging in Place vs. Senior Living

• The hidden burdens and risks of managing aging at home—care coordination, safety concerns, and social isolation.
• Shari’s research: Most homes aren’t designed for aging adults; successful “aging in place” requires massive support.
• Community living can provide more safety, social interaction, and peace of mind for both loved ones and families.

Buy Shari’s book here

Learn more about Shari Ross and her resources and services at seniorlivingmadesimple.com.

Key Quotes:

• “Memory care is not a punishment; it’s a lifeline.”
• “Independence without a support net is just a slow-motion disaster.”
• “Be observant, be vocal, and trust your gut.”

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